On the way to experiencing intimacy, various obstacles can arise in the form of merging with a partner and the organization of dependent relationships, mistakenly perceived as intimacy. Or, on the contrary, because of the fear of being absorbed, a person remains isolated due to the inability to open his boundaries to another. 

5 Conditions Required

Including intimacy can be perceived as a way of avoiding loneliness, such motivation is compensatory, then the need is not for intimacy, but in finding a way that allows you to somehow overcome your loneliness.

• Desire or intention to enter into a close relationship

This is your choice, for which you will have to be responsible. Sometimes it is hard to be aware of it, and then it is easier to take offense or blame the other for the fact that, for some reason, the intimacy did not happen.